Has God Changed Your Name?

Has God Changed Your Name?

When a baby is born, parents often search in books or on computer websites for name ideas. Choosing a baby’s name usually takes a while, but when parents decide on a name, they can explain where the name originated and the reason for their choice.

Some parents, like mine, wait until they meet their baby to choose a name. My parents tell me that they decided to name me Krystal after my birth, based on my eyes. My mother recanted that my eyes were like crystals, which prompted her to choose my name, but she wanted a distinct spelling.

Has God Changed Your Name?

Often, parents choose names that “sound good,” or they don’t want a name because they knew someone with that name, and perhaps that person did not have a good reputation. It is fun to look up the Biblical meaning of a name on the computer. According to my internet search, Krystal means “Follower of Christ,” and Rene’ signifies “born again.”

In the Bible days, choosing names was very important. Sometimes, God told parents to name their child a specific name as He did with John the Baptist (Luke 1:13 KJV) and Jesus. There are also several examples in the Bible when God changed a person’s birth name later in life. The name change from God altered the person’s destiny and life trajectory.

God Changed Names in the Bible

God changed Abram to Abraham when he was 99 years old. He simultaneously changed Abram’s wife’s name from Sarai to Sarah (Genesis 17). God promised that they would have a baby in the next year and that Abraham would be the “father of nations” and Sarah would be the “mother of nations.”

Abram to Abraham Genesis 17:5 ESV

Later in Genesis, there is a story of Jacob, who was born as the youngest twin, with his brother Esau being the oldest. The Bible states that Jacob grasped Esau’s heel when the twins were born. Jacob’s name indicates that he was following behind and on Esau’s heel. His name also means “supplanter,” someone who purposefully takes over or takes someone else’s place. In Jacob’s case, he was very skilled at using trickery to get what he wanted. One of the things he wanted was to be considered the firstborn.

The firstborn child was supposed to inherit the birthright blessings, and Jacob was determined to take it from Esau. In Genesis, Jacob convinced Esau to exchange the birthright for a food bowl. Jacob spends his life as a trickster. He deceived his father, brother, and Uncle until he ultimately had a name-changing experience with God. After wrestling all night, God changed Jacob’s name to Isreal.

no longer be Jacob Genesis 32:28 ESV

There is Power in a Name Change

Names are spoken to us several times a day and an innumerable number of times throughout our lives. Names are words, and spoken words have power. Whatever we decide to call our children, whether a name or nickname, should be chosen with care and with the child’s future and destiny in mind.

Proverbs 22:1 ESV

Sometimes, we have nicknames given to us when we were younger that are different from our names. Nicknames can be given based on personalities, actions, talents, or other characteristics. As adults, childhood nicknames may no longer be appropriate and can lead to embarrassment or humiliation later in life. We should think of the unintended consequences of nicknames for our children. It is important to have a good name.

Sometimes, our decisions and our path in adulthood can cause us to be “labeled” with unpleasant names. Being labeled “thief, murderer, liar, cheater,” or other unpleasantries is prevalent in our society.

We must not allow others to label us and change our names. God says we are more than a conqueror. He says we are well-able, strong, wise, and blessed. Sometimes, it can be hard for others to see us as God sees us, especially if we have suffered a public misstep. God can give us a new name and set our lives on a better trajectory. We must walk in the light of His love. All we need to do is come to Him by faith in His Son, Jesus Christ.

God’s Name Change

In the book of Revelations, which is the last book of the Bible, God promises to give us a new name. God wants to exchange our life for a better one, and we can have it when we accept, believe, and confess His son Jesus.

White stone Revelations 2:17 ESV

As we live this life right now, God wants us to know that He does not call us by the names that the “world” calls us. If we receive the gift of salvation given to us by faith and trust in His son, Jesus, then we have a right to be called new names such as a friend, beloved, renewed, children, and royalty.

Names that God calls me

We can rise above the names and labels of our past when we accept the grace and forgiveness that the life, burial, and resurrection of Jesus offers. The most notable name that God can call us is “forgiven” and “Christian.” When He calls me a Christian, He is giving me His name.

As Christians, we must refuse to carry the shame and condemnation that the enemy brings and remind him that our past is now under the blood of Jesus Christ. We must believe that God accepts us. Jesus washed away our sins, and despite our failures, He gave us His holiness and forgiveness. The Apostle Paul explained that we all have to strive toward the future as followers of Christ.

Brothers and sisters, I do not consider myself yet to have taken hold of it. But one thing I do: Forgetting what is behind and straining toward what is ahead,  I press on toward the goal to win the prize for which God has called me heavenward in Christ Jesus.

Philippians 3: 13-14 NIV

A Christian’s Simple Prayer Of Thanks

Our Heavenly Father waits to give each of us a new name. He wants to call us “forgiven” and “Christian,” but he wants to give each of us a distinct new name one day. As Christians, when we take the name of Christ, He gives us His righteousness and lives in our hearts. Let’s bow our heads in prayer to thank God for changing our names and blessing us.

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Don’t Let Regret Steal Your Joy

Don’t Let Regret Steal Your Joy

No one lives this life without making at least one regrettable decision. For most of us, we may feel as though we have made a few of them. God does not want us to look at the past and wonder what could have or should have been. He wants us to trust He will intervene and help us even when we take a wrong turn. No matter what, don’t let regret steal your joy. God knows how to use what the enemy meant for evil and work it out for our good (Genesis 50:20), but we must trust him.

Dont Let Regret Steal Your Joy

I prayerfully write a new post each week and want to be faithful and authentic. The truth is, sometimes, I catch myself struggling with a feeling of regret. I believe that God is leading me to write this post despite my discomfort, as I know I need to continue working in this area. Allow me to be obedient and share my testimony and personal story in this post.

I am happily married to my college sweetheart, Jeffrey, but that has not always been the case. Avery was born when I was young, fresh out of college, and unmarried. As you can imagine, this was a difficult time because back then, the thought was that if you were pregnant, you should get married. Although we loved our son, Avery, we did not marry and eventually split up. It was not until Avery was sixteen that we returned to each other.

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God knows how to give His children good gifts even when it seems our lives have taken a wrong turn. God can change regret into joy if we ask and trust Him. When I dedicated my life to God and determined to live a surrendered life, God proved to me that he was in my corner. He could take all the pieces of my shattered heart and disappointing expectations, mold them in His hands, and create a life full of love and joy. Knowing that God has turned my regrets into joy, I am convinced there is no wrong turn that God can not help me correct.

I praise God for all of my blessings and am very thankful for second chances, but we all must stay alert because the enemy wants to steal our joy. Sometimes, I see myself wishing I had not lost so many precious years when Avery was young. Thoughts like that can catch me off guard and take me down the “guilt trip road.” I can get carried away wondering where I would be if only, but God does not want us to live in regret.

The Enemy Wants to Condemn Us With Regret From Our Past

The enemy wants us to condemn our past by reminding us of our poor choices. The enemy’s goal is to stop us from praising God. He makes us believe that our best days have long passed, and we have irreversibly missed out on opportunities. We must remember that we serve a God who specializes in miracles. No matter where life has taken us, we must not forget that God knows where we are. He will order our steps if we allow Him.

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Regardless of our past, we serve a God who has promised to forgive and forget our mistakes. The Bible says that when we ask for forgiveness, God removes our sin as far as the East is from the West. Jesus died for each of our mistakes, and we must be willing to give Him our past, present, and future.

Resist Regret From the Enemy with Prayer and Praise

Although it may seem harmless to entertain trips down “memory lane” with the enemy, he will cause us to feel bad if we are not careful. We must be mindful because we can find ourselves in an unhealthy place without joy. It is hard to be joyful about what we have if we are looking behind in regret over what we do not have. As the enemy tries to lead us down a negative path, we must resist his temptation. The Bible says that if we resist the enemy, he will flee.

Resist the Devil and he will flee JAmes 4:7 KJV

Whenever we fall into a pit of regret, we must realize that we have landed in the enemy’s trap. Next, we should defeat the enemy by praying and praising God for the good He has brought to our lives despite our mistakes. If we praise God for being with us through our trials, we will find positivity, joy, and a reason to delight ourselves in God. We must rest because God is leading our lives, and we must always trust Him.

A Prayer to Deal With Feelings of Regret

The enemy will attack God’s children in any way he can. He likes to condemn us in our minds as he attempts to pull us away from praising God for our blessings. This week’s prayer reminds us of God’s goodness for our future. Let’s pray and ask God to help us so we don’t allow regret to steal our joy.

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Four Principles of Effective Christian Communication

Four Principles of Effective Christian Communication

Situations can cause us to become hurt, angry, or upset. When we least expect it, tempers flare or disappointments occur because the enemy is always busy. Many people believe it is perfectly reasonable to “unleash” and let others know exactly how you feel, but what does God consider effective communication for Christians? Whether at work, home, or church, we should want to bring God glory and honor at all times. There are four principles of effective Christian communication, and what we see from others may differ significantly from what God commands.

Four Principles of Effective Christian Communication

As a Speech-Language Pathologist, I teach children to speak and express themselves clearly. As a Christian, I must be willing to be a student to learn what God says about how I should express myself. The Bible teaches us what God considers effective communication for Christians at home or work.

Words can build up or tear down. Our communication can make a situation better or, indeed, make it worse. The Bible tells us that we should be mindful of the power of our words at all times, as death and life are in the power of the tongue (Proverbs 18:21 KJV).

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Four principles should govern our communication as Christians. Whether we are writing or speaking, as Christians, we want to glorify God and bless others when we speak. Conscious of these four principles, we will honor God and others with our words.

  • Principle 1: Effective Christian communication involves monitoring what is said.
  • Principle 2: Effective Christian communication entails being mindful of the emotions or feelings behind our spoken words.
  • Principle 3: Effective Christian communication requires us to examine our tone of voice.
  • Principle 4: Effective Christian communication consists of checking the motivation behind our words.

Effective Christian Communication Involves Monitoring What is Said

Effective communication includes monitoring what is said, and the first principle should consist of truth. Nowadays, the world fights over the definition of a simple word like “truth.” For many, truth depends on which news station we listen to, how we “feel,” or what we “think.” People have begun to say things like “my truth,” as if truth ebbs, flows, and changes for each of us. For a Christian, there should only be one truth: God’s Word. God is truth, and what His Word says is true. 

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As children, we learned the Ten Commandments, and we know the one that says not to bear false witness. We know that we are to love one another, and loving each other does not include lying to each other. The Bible clearly states that our communication should be truthful. Why have we stepped away from this simple truth?

Therefore, having put away falsehood, let each one of you speak the truth with his neighbor, for we are members one of another.

Ephesians 4:5 ESV

Effective Christian Communication Entails Being Mindful of the Emotions or Feelings Behind Our Spoken Words

We have all been guilty of speaking too quickly and possibly saying something we wish we hadn’t. It can feel as if we can see the words leave our lips and immediately want to retract and put them back. When we let the words fly out without being mindful of our emotions or feelings, we may say something we wish we hadn’t. God does not want us to live with regret, so he reminds us to take our time and think about what we will say before we speak it. Love is the emotion we should feel when we speak; if we do not, we may need God’s help.

Quick to hear, slow to anger James 1:19 ESV

We are reminded not to speak in haste (James 1:19), not to be rash (Proverbs 12:18), speak in anger, or give full vent (Proverbs 29:11). Instead, as Christians, we are told to be wise, gentle, kind, and ponder how to answer. The Bible states that we must answer every carelessly spoken word (Matthew 12:36). If we are upset, it may be better to walk away and pray rather than risk saying something we can not take back.

Effective Christian Communication Requires Us To Examine Our Tone Of Voice

As adults, we often chastise our children for “how they talk to us.” In other words, we get upset with our children if they use a disrespectful tone. I know I probably sound just like my mother when I hear myself say to my teenage girls, “Watch your tone, young lady.” I am sure everyone with adolescent girls can relate. We must remember to watch our tone when we communicate with others. The Bible says that we should speak the truth in love. 

Let your speech always be gracious seasoned with salt Colossians 4:6 ESV

As Christians, we should pursue peace and mutual upbuilding (Romans 14:19). The Bible tells us that our speech should be gracious, which means we should exhibit kindness and courtesy. If our words are careless, they can be like pouring gasoline on a burning fire. If we choose what to say wisely, it can be as if we are seasoning what we say, and therefore, what we say can be more easily “digested.” The Bible reminds us to use a gentle tongue, a soft answer, encouragement, and to avoid quarreling.

To speak evil of no one, to avoid quarreling, to be gentle, and to show perfect courtesy toward all people.

Titus 3:2 ESV

Effective Christian Communication Mandates Checking The Motivation Behind Our Words

We should always examine the motivation behind our words to ensure we are not falling into sin. For example, if tempted to exaggerate a truth, we must quickly realize and deal with why we want to tell an untruth. Perhaps we are trying to impress someone or make ourselves look good.

Oh that you would be silent Job 13:5 ESV

The enemy knows the power of our words and would love it if we become prideful, gossip, speak untruths, brag, or judge others. Our Heavenly Father does not want us to do any of these because He wants us to love each other and not hurt others. Sometimes, we would be wise to “hold our peace.”

A Prayer to Communicate Effectively

Whether at work, home or in church, our communication should indicate that we are children of God. We should want to bring God glory and honor at all times. If we lose our temper and use hurtful or obscene communication toward others, we will not be glorifying God. The Bible tells us that we will get angry sometimes, but we should not sin, and we should not remain mad. Let’s pray and ask God to help us learn to communicate effectively as Christians.

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Four Lies From The Enemy About Loneliness

Four Lies From The Enemy About Loneliness

I am now happily married with children at home, but there have been times when I felt lonely as a single and married woman. Loneliness doesn’t care if you are married or single. It is also not defined by whether or not you have children. Loneliness is a condition of the heart and mind, and God does not want us to believe the lies from the enemy about loneliness. I prayerfully write this post out of concern for those who are feeling extreme loneliness right now.

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Our feelings must be dealt with as the enemy can use loneliness as a springboard for many dark paths, including depression, anxiety, panic attacks, and stress. If left unchecked, we may find ourselves vulnerable to sin as we try to justify sinful behavior such as promiscuity, addictions, or being involved in unhealthy relationships.

We are currently isolated during the shutdown due to the COVID-19 pandemic. We must stay in our homes and not even have contact with extended family members. Separation is difficult for people who are otherwise “social butterflies.” It is also difficult for those who are elderly and now find that no one can visit. In this challenging time, we suffer isolation from our friends, families, coworkers, and church families.

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We are like little unsuspecting sheep grazing in the pasture. The enemy waits for us to get off to ourselves because we are easy prey. As our minds wander, the enemy will try to come in and fill us with several lies. The reason the enemy tells lies is that he wants to cause us to wallow in loneliness. The enemy is after our peace, hearts, and minds. Let’s look at four of the enemy’s great lies and combat them with God’s truth.

  1. The Enemy Lies by Telling Us That No One Understands
  2. The Enemy Lies by Telling Us That No One Cares
  3. The Enemy Lies By Telling Us That God’s Word Is Not True
  4. The Enemy Lies By Telling Us That The Situation Is Hopeless

The Enemy Lies by Telling Us That No One Understands

As we find ourselves isolated from others, the enemy likes to make us feel that our situation is unlike anyone else’s and that others will not understand what we are going through. Singles may feel like everyone else in the whole world is married. Women who do not have children may feel like everyone else has children and would not understand them or the situation.

The enemy lies by telling us that no one understands because he wants us to isolate ourselves from others, grow cold toward them, and refuse to share how we feel. If we know someone going through a similar situation, the enemy may try to convince us that that person is different from us somehow. The enemy knows that if we share our feelings with others, such as family or friends, they may offer to pray with us or become a needed support system.

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More importantly, the enemy knows that when you bow your head in prayer to God and ask Him to help, He will. God fully understands our hearts. He knows our thoughts and feelings. Our Heavenly Father waits for us to come to Him in prayer. He will listen and help.

In my distress I called upon the Lord, and cried unto my God: he heard my voice out of his temple, and my cry came before him, even into his ears.

Psalm 18:6 KJV

The Enemy Lies by Telling Us That No One Cares

The enemy will work hard to keep us away from others. The enemy lies by telling us that no one cares. He wants to contribute to our feelings of isolation with negative thoughts that cause us to become more and more inclined to stay by ourselves and become depressed.

God is our refuge and strength even when we feel loneliness

When we feel this way, we must draw close to God because he cares for us. God has told us that he will be with us no matter what. He will never leave or forsake us (Hebrews 13:5). All we have to do is to come to Him.

Casting all your care upon him; for he careth for you.

1 Peter 5:7 KJV

The Enemy Lies By Telling Us That God’s Word Is Not True

Ever since the days of Adam and Eve, the enemy has challenged God’s words. Satan knows what the Bible says, but the enemy lies by telling us that God’s Word is inaccurate. He opens the door to doubt if the enemy can get us to question any part of the Word.

The serpent caught Eve alone, challenged God’s words, and caused Eve to question what God said (Genesis 3:1-5 KJV). The enemy continues to work this way today. He waits until there is isolation from our prayer partners and church family members, and then he tries to convince us that there is some way of being a child of God and sinning “just a little.” 

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If we open our ears to the enemy, we can fall prey to his untruths. The enemy wants us to doubt God’s goodness and willingness to help. He wants to diminish the risks of sin and increase its lure so that he can lead us right into his trap. We can not entertain thoughts from the enemy.

The Enemy Lies By Telling Us That The Situation Is Hopeless

Sometimes, we find ourselves caught in the enemy’s web. If we sin, the enemy will quickly try to condemn us. The enemy will point figures at us and try to convince us that we do not deserve forgiveness. The enemy lies by telling us that the situation is hopeless.

The enemy attacks our minds and tries to cause us to fall into despair. Peace comes from God, and the enemy wants to rob us. God wants to give us peace that surpasses our understanding, but we must not let the enemy steal the joy that God gives. The enemy is attacking us to get to our hearts and minds. We cannot fall into despair.

Four Lies of the Enemy about loneliness Scripture

How To Combat Loneliness and Find Peace

As we go through life and experience moments or seasons of loneliness, we need to trust God and come to him. We must know the enemy’s schemes and heed the warning signs when our peace and joy are attacked.

I have told you these things, so that in me you may have peace. In this world, you will have trouble. But take heart! I have overcome the world.

John 16:33 NIV

The Bible warns us that we will have trouble in this world but commands us not to be afraid because Jesus has already overcome it. This world is not our heavenly home, and there will be some tough times along the way, but our best weapons against loneliness and attacks on our peace are listening or reading Bible scriptures, worshiping, and praying. All of these actions bring us into the presence of God, which is where we need to be, especially when the enemy is trying to attack our hearts and minds.

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The Bible is full of scriptures that will help us. God’s Word reminds us that, despite our feelings of loneliness, we are not alone. The Bible will remind us that we serve a loving God, and He wants a relationship with us. As His children, we are never alone.

There is a fullness of joy when we are in God’s presence. We must fight the enemy for our peace and decide not to follow his luring and temptations. When we go through difficulty, we need the presence of God to lift us. We can find the presence of God in his Word, and we can also find closeness to God in worship and prayer.

Thou wilt shew me the path of life: in thy presence is fulness of joy; at thy right hand there are pleasures for evermore.

Psalm 16:11 KJV

A Prayer To Deal With Feelings Of Loneliness

As we pray to God, we acknowledge He is all we need. Praying to God is a declaration of our faith and says that we believe God can and will help. Don’t fear, don’t fall into despair, stay encouraged, and call out to God in prayer.

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How To Have Courage In All Situations

How To Have Courage In All Situations

Do you know how to have courage in all situations? Watching a father teach his daughter to ride her bike for the first time without training wheels reminded me that we must have courage in all situations. As I looked on, the Father gently told his daughter that she was ready and could do it. The Father explained that he would be right there to catch her if she began to fall.

The daughter was fearful and reluctant. Her Father lessened her uneasiness as he explained that we all get scared when doing something for the first time, but soon, with practice, it will be easy. He told her that the first step was to try and be surprised at how simple riding the bike might be.

How To Have Courage In All Situations

Looking up at her tall, strong Father, the little girl tried it. She was so unsteady at first. The Father held onto her bicycle seat and ran beside her. Then, as she got the hang of riding, he gently let go but still ran beside her. She did it! When she came to a stop, they were both smiling. Oh, what courage the little girl displayed and what patience her Father showed. Our Heavenly Father wants the same courage from us.

Our Heavenly Father Wants Us To Have Courage

As Christians, God is like the Father teaching his daughter to ride a bicycle. Equally, we often feel like the little girl when God calls us to do something we have never done. The task that the Father calls us to do can feel insurmountable. We may believe we are not ready, prepared, or strong enough. Fear tries to sneak in, but our Father encourages us to trust him. He calls out to each of us, telling us to have courage.

Our Heavenly Father wants us to have courage. He specifically asks us to have three different types of courage.

  • God wants us to have the courage to try.
  • God wants us to have the courage to stand.
  • God wants us to have the courage to fight.

Have the Courage to Try Something New

Sometimes, we experience God’s gentle nudge as He gives us the courage to try something new. I feel that God encouraged me to start this blog. When God calls us to do something new, it surprises us, and we may even prefer not to stretch out into an unfamiliar endeavor. Most people initially ignore it, thinking it is just an unction or a fleeting thought.

God’s persistence and insistence help us know He speaks to us in the Spirit. Thankfully, God is so patient that He gives us a chance to respond. He knows and understands that we may not know it is Him. We are often just learning to hear God when He speaks, so He gives us many opportunities to realize that it is His voice.

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Our Father gives us a choice to obey. He promises to bless obedience. God knows what is ahead, and our blessings are often one “yes” away, but we must choose to follow. It can sometimes feel hard to step out into the deep water God calls us into because the enemy brings so many negative thoughts.

Have the Courage to Stand

Sometimes, God calls us to stand. This year, I was led to be quiet at a time when things did not seem fair. I wanted to protest, speak up, and demand fairness. But God called me to stand rather than fight and let Him handle the situation.

In my case, God chose to interrupt my plans for a meeting. The meeting was all set, but the other people canceled it at the last minute. I had rehearsed what I would say and how I would say it for weeks, but now the meeting was set for almost another month away. Thankfully, in the long wait, I realized God’s plan was for me to cancel the appointment and let him work it out for me. In His wisdom, God knew that the meeting probably would not have gone well.

How To Have Courage in All Situtions Psalm-34:17

Imagine if you heard your child crying out for you as a parent. Wouldn’t you come running as soon as you knew they were hurting? Our Heavenly Father loves us and will come running to us. Sometimes, He will tell us to stand still, be silent, and let Him handle the situation. Occasionally, we must let go and let God fight our battles. We must run to God, pray, and cry out to Him.

The Lord will fight for you, and you have only to be silent

Exodus 14:14 ESV

Additionally, there are times when we must stand more actively. God instructs us to put on our armor and stand against the enemy. We have to be ready for the fight. For example, in our homes, we all must stand against any enemy that would come against us. Sometimes, our Christian values clash with popular opinion, and we must stand up for what is right. We have to resist the enemy and cause him to flee. We must take a stand for our faith.

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Submit yourselves therefore to God. Resist the devil, and he will flee from you.

James 4:7

Have the Courage to Fight

In this world, we often feel we have to fight our way. Sometimes, we get ill and have to battle a disease. There may be a time when we must help our children or loved ones as they struggle with an illness. It takes courage because we have to fight fear. The enemy will attack our minds, but we must hold on to God’s words and be willing to fight.

Fear thou not; for I am with thee: be not dismayed; for I am thy God: I will strengthen thee; yea, I will help thee; yea, I will uphold thee with the right hand of my righteousness.

Isaiah 41:10 KJV

Our bodies and minds are the most significant battles we have to fight. We must fight negative thoughts and the lure of sinful acts. For this reason, we all should stay connected to a church family so that we can call for others to pray with us and for us. Our churches should teach us how to properly use spiritual weapons and tools like God’s Word, prayer, fasting, giving, and praising God to defeat the enemy who wants to lure us into sin rather than see us rise to defeat him.

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The truth is that we serve a God who helps us fight our battles. He has given us victory. He strengthens us. We are never alone; He won’t leave us wherever we go. The Bible says that nothing can separate us from His love (Romans 8:38-39)

A Prayer To Have Courage

We must remember that all our hope and trust should be in God the Father through our faith in the Lord Jesus. As Christians, we must be willing to live obedient lives and be ready to have the courage to try something new or to step out in faith for the cause of Christ. We must be willing to have the courage to stand still and be quiet at times, but we also must have our armor on and be ready to fight the enemy of our souls with our spiritual weapons. Let’s pray and ask God to help us to have courage.

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Give Thanks To God in Everything

Give Thanks To God in Everything

Despite life’s many ups and downs, we must thank God. The Bible tells us to “give thanks in all circumstances” (1 Thessalonians 5:18). This can be a difficult task, especially during tough times. But when we thank God, even amid our struggles, we acknowledge His sovereignty and goodness. We are also choosing to focus on the positive rather than the negative.

One of my favorite songs is by Tauren Wells, called “Hills and Valleys.” This song reminds me that sometimes we go through a tough time, and at other times, we feel like we are on the mountaintop celebrating. Despite the ups and downs of life, God is worthy to be praised at all times. We must know how to thank God in everything as his Word commands. Let’s take a closer look at how we can do that.

Give Thanks to God in Everything

Sometimes, it is easy to see when others are acting ungrateful. It may not be as easy to notice ingratitude in ourselves. Imagine that you give someone something, and they take the gift and begin using it but never say: “Thank you.” As a gift-giver, you would feel terrible about this visible sign of ingratitude. Perhaps you would attempt to ignore it, but you would probably be upset and hurt. Now imagine that the person you gave the gift to begins complaining that “no one ever gives them anything!”  We would all have a problem with this, but often, this is how many of us respond to God and his many blessings. We act as though we do not realize how much He has already given.

Give Thanks to God

Being around a person who does not give thanks is not pleasant. Although we may know others who act as though they are never thankful, we must thank and praise God as Christians. Christians should never be described as ungrateful. The Bible teaches us that we should be grateful for everything. Giving thanks to God is pleasing to Him.

As I write this post, many people are safe and at home. They are not sick and in the hospital with COVID-19, but many complain about staying home. Some people are blessed to work from home but complain that the children are in the way. Even the children who ordinarily enjoyed learning activities on computers now have complaints.

Giving thanks to God in Everything Scripture

Give Thanks In Everything To Maintain Our Joy

Not giving thanks can steal our joy. The Bible is full of stories where people were ungrateful and complained despite God’s provisions, and it is clear that God does not want us to act this way. One example of this is in the book of Exodus.

Exodus 16 tells a story of when God brought His people out of captivity. The people began to complain of hunger, saying they wanted bread, so God provided food. The Bible called the food that came from God “manna.” At first, the people seemed to be amazed by the manna, but that did not last.

Eventually, instead of being thankful, in Numbers 11, God’s people began to murmur and complain about the lack of variety in their diets. They wanted meat and something different.

“We remember the fish, which we did eat in Egypt freely; the cucumbers, and the melons, and the leeks, and the onions, and the garlic: But now our soul is dried away: there is nothing at all, beside this manna, before our eyes.”

Number 11:5-6 KJV

God’s people were not joyful or thankful that God provided food for them. They weren’t even pleased to have escaped slavery. The people were on the way to a promised land, but they were complaining.

It is easy to see that sometimes we are guilty of complaining when God has graciously provided for our needs. We must learn to give thanks in everything to maintain our joy. Many people should be giving thanks, but right now, as I turn on the news, I can hear an ungrateful attitude ringing on the nightly news and the internet, and I believe that it is stealing our joy. An ungrateful, lousy attitude can spread. God wants his people to rise and spread joy.

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Why Should We Be Thankful To God In Everything?

When we do not give thanks, we risk walking along a “dark path.” Ungrateful people are not joyful. They are not content, and they are not happy. God wants each of us to give thanks and have joy. We must learn to give thanks to keep us out of the darkness that the enemy tries to lead us to.

Because that, when they knew God, they glorified him not as God, neither were thankful; but became vain in their imaginations, and their foolish heart was darkened.

Romans 1:21 KJV

The enemy knows that if he can stop us from praising God, we will begin to grow cold toward God and others. If we are not thankful, we can easily stop being content, and we take a chance to allow our imaginations to run wild, which can lead to sin. We must always fix our eyes on God and not our circumstances.

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How Can We Be Thankful To God In Everything?

1 Thessalonians 5:16-18 states that we should rejoice, pray, and give thanks in all circumstances. Have you ever been so happy that you were singing? Have you ever had people wonder why you are so joyful? God wants us to rejoice in Him. He would love to hear us singing, praying, and giving thanks. We should all be willing to let others know of God’s goodness.

Praying allows us to thank God for all He has done for us. It also gives us peace as we remember and praise Him for who He is and all His provisions. As we pray and thank God, it humbles us and slays the prevalent entitlement attitude that the enemy wants us to have as we realize that all good things come from God, even our very breath. Praying and giving God thanks softens our hearts and helps us to be more thankful for others. No matter what we face, we should never forget that praying to our Father is a gift.

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We should abound in gratitude so that giving thanks spills over to others. Just as a bad attitude spreads, gratitude spreads when we are thankful and joyful. Eye contact, a smile, and a well-meant “thank you” can not be underestimated, especially by someone who feels undervalued, underappreciated, and forgotten.

A Prayer to Give Thanks To God in Everything

Despite the hills and valleys in life, God walks us through each one, and he does not change. He is the constant in our ever-changing world. God also provides for us. The Bible teaches that every perfect gift comes from God, and he deserves our praise. Let’s bow our heads and pray a prayer to give thanks.

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Do You Live a Crucified Life?

Do You Live a Crucified Life?

Do you live a crucified life? As we enter the spring season and celebrate Jesus, the cross is ever-present in our minds. During this time, we praise and celebrate Jesus for giving us a way to the Father. When Jesus came to Earth and died upon the cross, we know He provided us with an opportunity to be reconciled with God, but He also gave instructions on how to live our lives after He left.

I believe God wants to remind us that we each need to “live a crucified life,” and we must understand what that truly means. Living a crucified life means that we obey God, humble ourselves, and die to ourselves. Let’s take a close look at each of these.

Live A Crucified Life of Obedience

Living a crucified life starts with following the commandments. Nowadays, we tend to want to set aside the commandments or write them off as no longer relevant. The commandments will always be important, reminding us how to live the cross. The cross and the commandments are all about love. As we look at the cross, we must remember to love God and others. In this way, we reach up to Heaven and reach out to our fellow man. 

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Jesus told us that we should not set the commandments aside or teach others to do so. Instead, we are to practice and teach the commandments.

Whosoever therefore shall break one of these least commandments, and shall teach men so, he shall be called the least in the kingdom of heaven: but whosoever shall do and teach them, the same shall be called great in the kingdom of heaven.

Matthew 5:19 KJV

Live a Crucified Life of Humility

Jesus explained that if we want to be great, we must be servants (Matthew 20:26). Living a crucified life means you willingly humble yourself before a mighty God in total surrender

Humble Yourselves therefore under the mighty hand of God 1 Peter 5:6 KJV

Serve God

As Christians, we should be servants. Jesus demonstrated this by example, as he served God and obediently showed us how to obey and do the will of the Father.

A servant recognizes who the boss is. The Bible teaches that we must come to God as little children. When we come to God as a child, we humbly surrender to His will for our lives. If we want to be followers of Christ, we must follow Christ’s example by submitting our lives to the Father the way He did.

As Christians, we must voluntarily set aside our rights and exchange them for a life that loves, serves, and obeys the will of God in Christ Jesus. In other words, we surrender to the will of God for our lives rather than try to make up our own rules because we trust and believe that the Father loves us and has our best interest at heart at all times. Out of love for the Father in Christ, as we go about our day, we seek to serve God and bring Him glory in all we do and say.

Serve Others

Jesus willingly washed his disciples’ feet as he taught them that we must be willing to help each other the way He did. The Bible teaches us to serve one another through love (Galatians 5:13 ESV).

Additionally, the Bible tells us to take care of the “least of these,” which are those who are hungry, thirsty, strangers, sick, and those who are in prison or need clothes (Matthew 25:40-45). 

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Live a Crucified Life By Dying to Yourself

As we spend this season remembering Jesus’ crucifixion, we must make His sacrifice personal by considering our own lives. The Bible commands Christians to live a crucified life with Christ by dying to themselves. We must die to ourselves daily and allow Christ to live in and through us.

Additionally, we all must take up our cross. God has given each of us talents and responsibilities. We each have a home, children, a job, or some circle of influence. We must be willing to let the love of God and the light of Jesus shine through us so that others can find their way to salvation.

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A Prayer to Live a Crucified Life

As Christians, if we want to honor God, we must live in obedience and humility as a servant. The enemy will fight us in this area and try to get us to become prideful and selfish. This week’s prayer to live a crucified life is one that we will need to pray as we commit to living the life that God has designed.

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How Can We Hear God When He Speaks and Know It’s His Voice

God speaks to us, but how can we hear Him when there are so many other voices in our heads? How can we listen to Him when we are too busy? There are so many things that compete with the voice of God in our lives. At any time, we hear the enemy attempting to tempt us, others sharing their opinions, our conscience, and things we see and hear on TV and online. The messages we hear from these sources can be best described as conflicting. So, how can we hear God when He speaks and know for sure that it is His voice that we hear? This post will discuss what you should and should not do to hear from God.

Don’t Wait Until a Crisis Occurs To Hear God Speak

First of all, understand that listening is developed through practice, so we don’t wait until a crisis occurs to hear God speak. Unfortunately, the only time that some people pray is when they are going through a right-now crisis. Of course, we need to pray when handling a difficult situation, but if that is the only time we pray, we will not learn through experience how to hear God. He may be trying to calm you and comfort you, but you can’t understand Him, and instead, the enemy tricks you into thinking that God isn’t answering you.

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Don’t Be in Such a Hurry

Secondly, don’t be in such a hurry when we communicate with God in prayer. We can not merely tell God all of our problems, ask Him to fix them, and then get up from prayer time. Let’s use the analogy of a doctor. If you were ill, would you go to the doctor’s office, tell him everything wrong, ask him to help you, and then say, “OK, thanks, Doc,” as you turn to leave? Of course not. You would wait to hear what the doctor says, right? God is more than a physician, so don’t be in such a hurry.

Let’s take the doctor analogy a little further. Would you tell the doctor how to fix your problem by suggesting what medicines or treatment he should prescribe? Could you see yourself getting mad at him if he thinks there is a better way?

Many Christians treat God this way. We may pray, but it seems just to tell God the problem and what we believe the solution is. Then, we wait for God to do exactly what we said. Sometimes, God, in His wisdom, works the situation out differently. If we cannot hear that this was the answer to our prayer, the enemy may convince us that God did not answer.

Now that we have an idea of how not to approach God let’s take a look at what we should do.

  1. Pray Correctly
  2. Listen Expectantly
  3. Don’t Fear

Pray Correctly

We must pray correctly. In a previous post, I wrote about how to pray like Jesus taught. Some of the information from that post bears repeating here. When we pray using the Lord’s Prayer as our guide, we must remember to praise God, repent, ask for what we need, and yield to God. These steps spell the acronym PRAY.

PRay acronym. Pray Like Jesus Taught

When we pray, we honor God with our obedience and reverence if we use the outline given to us by Jesus. As a parent, if our children (who are old enough to know better) came to us demanding that we fix their problems or asking for this, that, and the other thing without even saying hello, we would consider this disrespectful. Therefore, we want to come to God reverently, praising Him as our Father, repenting, asking for what we need, and yielding to allow Him to work the situation out; however, He knows best.

Listen Expectantly

After you have asked God to help, the next step is to listen expectantly. Listening requires us to stop talking. It is difficult to patiently and carefully listen, so we must practice this skill daily. When we look for God to speak, we shut our mouths but open our hearts. We often hear scriptures and words of reassurance, comfort, and love.

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Jesus said that His sheep know His voice (John 10:27). The red writing in the Bible lets us know what Jesus would and would not say. As we get better acquainted with the Bible, we can better distinguish the Voice of God. We can learn by going to church and studying the Bible. As we understand what is and isn’t in the Bible, we will become more familiar with God’s voice. The Holy Spirit will remind us of scriptures, but He can not remind us if we do not first start learning,

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Don’t Fear

After you have prayed, asked God to help, and you have taken the time to listen to His voice, patiently wait, and don’t fear. If you have given God permission to intervene in the way that He sees best, expect Him to do just that, and don’t become fearful. God knows how to help you hear Him.

Countless stories in the Bible tell us that God knows how to get our attention. If there is a strong message that He wants to get to us, He will find a way to communicate. In the Bible, God used a burning bush, a jaw from an animal, a visit from angels, and temporary blindness to get others’ attention. He is still able to do that now.

The Bible is clear that God will never forsake us (Psalm 37:35 ESV). He knows how to give good gifts to His Children. He is a good provider and will never let you go without what you need. Trust Him.

“For every one that asketh receiveth; and he that seeketh findeth; and to him that knocketh it shall be opened. If a son shall ask bread of any of you that is a father, will he give him a stone? or if he ask a fish, will he for a fish give him a serpent? Or if he shall ask an egg, will he offer him a scorpion? If ye then, being evil, know how to give good gifts unto your children: how much more shall your heavenly Father give the Holy Spirit to them that ask him?

Luke 11:10-13 KJV

A Prayer to Hear God More Clearly

As we grow in God, we silence the unproductive chatter in our minds and learn to hear and know God’s will. As we make it through each test and trial, our faith grows, and we learn that God is listening. He is always working things out for His children. Let’s Pray.

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Do You Have Religion or a Relationship With God?

A long time ago, people used to say they “had religion.” I don’t think we say that anymore. Instead, we say things like, “I’m a Catholic, a Baptist, or some other denomination.” Having a relationship with God is not the same as having a religion. God wants a personal relationship with all his children, regardless of where they attend church. Do you have a religion or a relationship with God? Let’s take a deeper look at this.

We enter our relationship with God through His son, Jesus Christ (John 3:16). Our faith in Jesus introduces us to God, the Father. Because of Adam and Eve’s sin, God went to great lengths to allow each of us to fix our severed relationship with God. He loved each of us so much that he let his righteous son suffer and die for us.

For Christ also suffered once for sins, the righteous for the unrighteous, that he might bring us to God, being put to death in the flesh but made alive in the spirit,

1 Peter 3:18 ESV

Jesus has made the first move, and now, each person must decide how to respond. Each person must choose to accept Jesus’ offer of reconciliation to God. Jesus allows the mending of our Godly relationship. His invitation is not to religion but an opportunity to connect with a Holy God.

A Relationship with God is Personal

Think about the connection with your spouse or significant other. These are personal relationships that start and evolve. Each of us has different stories of when we began our relationship. For example, couples have differing stories about where they met their partners, introduced them, and how the relationship evolved.

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We should also have a story regarding when we began a personal relationship with God. Relations are like journeys, and no two are ever the same. A personal relationship with God is individualized. When and how we decide to follow Christ is different. Each person should have a testimony that describes when and how the connection has changed them.

For some, they decided to accept Christ at a church. Some made this decision in a hospital bed or a prison cell. After deciding to follow Christ, some people never stumbled or looked back. Others had more of a rocky on-again/off-again relationship until they finally decided to change and surrender to God’s will.

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When we decide to follow Jesus, he leads us individually to the end goal He has in mind for our lives. He does not want us to judge each other because we must all work out our salvation. Even though our journey may be different, we should all be pursuing a relationship with God, which requires making changes. Our relationship with Jesus is life-changing. He loves us and helps us in every area, resulting in the needed changes when we accept His assistance. 

What is Religion?

Religion means you do some things associated with the church, but your heart is not in it. Religious people may pride themselves on being good representatives in the church. They may attend service weekly, send their kids to a Christian school, choose to home-school them, or say churchy things. The religious person feels they must do religious acts but may not feel personally connected to Jesus or God.

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Let’s go back to the spouse/significant other analogy. Religion is based on the things you do or do not do. A relationship is based on your heart. If your spouse only does things, like take out the trash or cook dinner, but is not invested in the relationship with their heart, this would be problematic. How do you think God feels when he sees us being too busy with religion to have a relationship with Him?

What Makes a Good Relationship?

A stable personal relationship contains these five markers.

A good relationship requires:

  1. Commitment
  2. Love
  3. Trust
  4. Communication
  5. Respect

A Good Relationship Requires Commitment

All good personal relationships begin with the individual decision to be committed. Jesus committed to loving us and demonstrated love by coming to Earth to reconcile us to God. Now, we must make a decision and define our relationship with Jesus. Jesus wants to have a good relationship with us, and the first step is to create a commitment. Just like we had to decide to get serious with our spouse, we must become exclusive with Jesus.

A Good Relationship Requires Love

Nothing matters more in a relationship than love. Jesus tells us to love God and others. It doesn’t matter if you carry your Bible everywhere, whether you can quote scriptures, or even whether you go to church every day. What matters is whether you show love.

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Love is so important to God that Jesus explained that all commandments describe who and how we should love (Matthew 22:37-39).

 Jesus said to him, “‘You shall love the Lord your God with all your heart, with all your soul, and with all your mind.’  This is the first and great commandment.  And the second is like it: ‘You shall love your neighbor as yourself.’

Matthew 22:37-39 NKJV

A Good Relationship Requires Communication

If we seek a personal relationship with God, we must communicate with Him. Communication is synonymous with prayer and studying the Bible. We talk to God in our prayers, and He speaks to us through His Word. We have a communication breakdown if we are not praying or reading and studying the Word.

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A Good Relationship Requires Trust

We cannot see God or Jesus with our physical eyes, but we need to trust. We must trust that God is real, hears us when we pray and will do what He has promised. This trust requires faith. In any good relationship, you should be able to believe that the person who loves you will do what they promised, even when they are away from your sight. Your spouse vowed to love, honor, and cherish, but God has promised even more. We need to trust Him.

A Good Relationship Requires Respect

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Ultimately, our relationship with Jesus leads us to the Father and allows us to become Children of God. The Bible clarifies that you can not become a Child of God without receiving and believing in His Son.

But as many as received Him, to them He gave the right to become children of God, to those who believe in His name.

John 1:12 NKJV

Jesus said to him, ‘I am the way, the truth, and the life. No one comes to the Father except through Me.’ 

John 14:6 NKJV

God is a good Father. He is worthy of respect as our Heavenly Father. We look to Him for wisdom, guidance, provision, and protection. He does not want to be one of many choices. He tells us that very clearly. We must decide whether to choose God as our Father through acceptance of His Son or remain lost, trusting in our ability or the enemy’s schemes.

A Prayer to Strengthen Our Relationship With God

We need a stronger relationship with God, not more religion. We need to hear his voice and do what he says. We all have gifts and talents that He has blessed us with, and we should be willing to use them for His glory. Let’s pray to strengthen our relationship with God.

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God Can Protect Us From Sickness

I woke up this morning to more news regarding the Coronavirus or COVID-19, and I began to pray for God to protect my family and friends from this sickness. As I said “amen” and continued my day, I pondered the idea of sickness and disease. I want God to fix it for everyone, but I felt secure as I got up from praying. Although He may not stop this illness and disease, God can protect us from sickness and watch over His children.

God Can Protect Us From Sickness

This world that we live in is not the Garden of Eden. Sin caused Adam and Eve to lose the opportunity to live there. When sin entered the world, it brought sickness, disease, and death. In our world, we have had many illnesses like polio, HIV, influenza, and smallpox. These illnesses and diseases do not come from God, but they come from the enemy.

There Will be No Sickness in God’s Kingdom

Life on this Earth is temporary, and we can take heart that there will be no sickness in God’s kingdom, Heaven. The reality is that at some point, we all will pass away from this world as we know it. According to the Bible, we can not live forever here on this Earth and will die once (Hebrews 9:27).

The world we live in right now is flawed. According to the Bible, things on this Earth will worsen because of the enemy, and eventually, all things will pass away. For this reason, God has prepared a way to bring us eternal life so we can spend eternity with Him in His kingdom. The enemy does not want us to find that path.

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How we live on this Earth is essential to God and determines whether we live with God for eternity. God desires that we become His child and live a life of faith that trusts Him. God wants us to prosper and be in good health, even as our soul prospers (3 John 1:2). Our spiritual health is more important than our bodily health to God. We can only experience eternal life if we are reborn spiritually as a child of God by accepting Jesus as our Savior.

When we hear of sickness or pandemics like Coronavirus, we must realize that this world is worsening. As children of God, He promises to give us abundant life. Being a child of God comforts us that even though we can not control anything, we know that God can.

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Pray and Trust That God Has a Plan Even in Sickness

The enemy is determined to rule this world and lead people astray. The enemy brings illness and fear. We must pray and trust God. We must remember that as children of God, we will one day arrive at a home that is God’s Kingdom. One day, the world will be free from suffering and pain. While we wait on that day, we should share the good news with others so that they know how to be reborn spiritually into the family of God.

Being a Christian does not mean that we will never get sick. When children of God experience sickness, we are to pray and ask God to heal us. He is faithful and will answer us. He may answer us using a doctor or send divine healing. He may deliver us from our sickness on Earth, or He may heal us as He takes us home to be with Him.

We can only pray, believe, and trust God to answer our prayer as He sees best. The Bible says that when sickness comes, we call upon the church’s elders to pray for us with oil.

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The enemy sees the state that many churches are in, and he knows that many people have decided not to attend church, and some who attend church still do not pray. Prayer is so vital. During illness and sickness, we need to pray for our salvation, the healing of those with the disease, and divine protection from illness.

Pray for Divine Protection From Illness

Pray for divine protection from illness for yourself and your family. This prayer asks God for forgiveness and protection from disease. We should also pray that others find refuge in God and that the illness subsides. Pray this prayer with faith.

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